I get asked a lot of questions like this:
‘I’ve been following your work for some years and have used magic to make fantastic changes to my life.
But how can I help my loved ones to do the same?‘
How do you help a friend or loved one to realise they can use magic to deal with difficulties?
First of all, it’s important to realise it’s not actually your job to fix anyone’s feelings, change their minds, point out their misunderstanding, or to persuade them of anything.
Like I often say, I don’t actually teach anything or persuade you of my opinions. I just get you to see things you already know on some level.
I just jiggle the truth out of you.
You cannot actually force a person to understand, not to persuade them to have insights.
So their path is not your responsibility and their insights are not ‘on’ you.
So what can you do to help?
Well here’s the thing…
When you’re ‘in a good place’, when you’re feeling connected, settled and capable of magic, you can help just by being around.
So your only job is to be there for your loved ones. And to love them.
And as far as advice goes, all you can ever do is tell the truth, as you see it, in that moment. If it occurs to you to say something ‘spiritual’ then say it. If it doesn’t, then don’t.
Love and truth, it’s the best help you can ever give.
And this will be FAR more powerful than offering any specific advice or assistance. Love them, speak your truth in the moment, let them work through their pain, and they will start to have insights all of their own.